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​Working with Modern Family Law Help4u Group and following our Blueprint for Success statistically guarantees service users a more positive outcome in their Family Court cases.

Service User Results

​In 2023, our business achieved an impressive 80.7% Net Promoter Score (NPS). We gathered this data by surveying 4,987 active service users, all of whom have received either a consultation or a paid service from us. These are industry-leading results. Then ask WHY our service users are so happy, 81% of our service users achieved results that were better than they anticipated and genuinely thought they would have had to have a solicitor to achieve what they did. In over 90% of these cases, the service user overturned highly paid barristers and solicitors. 

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Welcome to Your First Step Towards Holistic Support

We understand that reaching out can feel overwhelming. Rest assured, you're taking a brave step towards not just resolving your concerns but towards a more empowered and balanced life. Fill in the form below to get started, and let us be your partner in this journey.

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We understand that reaching out can feel overwhelming. Rest assured, you're taking a brave step towards not just resolving your concerns but towards a more empowered and balanced life. Fill in the form below to get started, and let us be your partner in this journey.

​So What Makes Us So Successful?

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USP1: Jason: Expert McKenzie Friend & Paralegal with a Decade of Family Law Experience

Jason's journey into the legal world stems not from a traditional legal training path but from his deep, personal dive into the complexities of family law. His story starts over a decade ago when he navigated his own case in family court without the assistance of a lawyer. Standing against his ex-wife's formal legal representation, Jason became his own advocate, a decision that catapulted him into what has become a long-standing commitment to assisting others in similar situations.

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Jason's journey into the legal world stems not from a traditional legal training path but from his deep, personal dive into the complexities of family law. His story starts over a decade ago when he navigated his own case in family court without the assistance of a lawyer. Standing against his ex-wife's formal legal representation, Jason became his own advocate, a decision that catapulted him into what has become a long-standing commitment to assisting others in similar situations.

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USP2: The law is the law, but no one can offer the support and advice Jason provides, because there's simply no one quite like him.

We advocate for a holistic approach, fundamentally intertwining mindfulness with our pathway to renewal. This strategy isn't just another element of our practice; it's the heart of our philosophy that healing blooms from within. Mindfulness not only calibrates the mental, physical, and emotional aspects of our beings, but it also cultivates a transformative environment geared towards comprehensive growth.

Our holistic ethos champions mindfulness, ushering participants into insightful self-discovery. Through methods like meditation and mindful breathing, we delve into a deeper understanding of our thoughts, emotions, and actions, fostering a profound connection to our holistic well-being. These practices aren’t just coping mechanisms but pivotal stepping stones towards lasting balance and peace.

In a world often seeking immediate remedies, our approach, firmly founded on mindfulness, emphasizes the integrated path to well-being. It reflects our belief in a balanced life — where mental clarity, emotional stability, and physical health weave together, nurturing an enduring resilience and a richer experience of life.

Embarking on our holistic and mindful journey is more than a program; it’s a reawakening. This path not only aims to restore balance but also educates in maintaining a holistic well-being, ingraining resilience, and joy amidst life’s fluctuations.

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We advocate for a holistic approach, fundamentally intertwining mindfulness with our pathway to renewal. This strategy isn't just another element of our practice; it's the heart of our philosophy that healing blooms from within. Mindfulness not only calibrates the mental, physical, and emotional aspect of our beings, but it also cultivates a transformative environment geared towards comprehensive growth.

Our holistic ethos champions mindfulness, ushering participants into insightful self-discovery. Through methods like meditation and mindful breathing, we delve into a deeper understanding of our thoughts, emotions, and actions, fostering a profound connection to our holistic well-being. These practices aren’t just coping mechanisms but pivotal stepping stones towards lasting balance and peace.

In a world often seeking immediate remedies, our approach, firmly founded on mindfulness, emphasizes the integrated path to well-being. It reflects our belief in a balanced life — where mental clarity, emotional stability, and physical health weave together, nurturing an enduring resilience and a richer experience of life.

Embarking on our holistic and mindful journey is more than a program; it’s a reawakening. This path not only aims to restore balance but educates in maintaining a holistic well-being, ingraining resilience, and joy amidst life’s fluctuations.

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USP3: Unparalleled Personalized Support, Communication, and Post-Court Guidance:

What truly distinguishes us is our commitment to bespoke support, clear communication, and comprehensive guidance—before, during, and especially after the court process. Recognising that the journey doesn’t end with a legal decision, we offer tailored advice and resources for life post-family court. This includes assisting with co-parenting strategies, helping you navigate the challenges of parenting from afar, and ensuring you maintain a heartfelt connection with your child or children. Our approach goes beyond the courtroom to support your journey towards a new normal, where you and your family can thrive despite past adversities.

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What truly distinguishes us is our commitment to bespoke support, clear communication, and comprehensive guidance—before, during, and especially after the court process. Recognizing that the journey doesn’t end with a legal decision, we offer tailored advice and resources for life post-family court. This includes assisting with co-parenting strategies, helping you navigate the challenges of parenting from afar, and ensuring you maintain a heartfelt connection with your child or children. Our approach goes beyond the courtroom to support your journey towards a new normal, where you and your family can thrive despite past adversities.

Our vision and execution combine to present a Mastered Philosophy that redefines the family law experience:

Integrated Legal Expertise and Life Rebuilding: At the core of our distinguished approach is a blend of unmatched legal expertise and compassionate guidance for rebuilding life post-court. Our extensive experience and acquired wisdom not only navigate you through the intricacies of family court but are also your beacon as you reconstruct your life, co-parent effectively, and maintain vital family connections. Our philosophy transcends typical legal counsel by recognizing the crucial role of holistic wellness and mindfulness in healing and growth. We provide tools and strategies to manage stress, foster emotional resilience, and cultivate a positive mindset, critical for transitioning into new phases of life post-divorce or family court resolutions. This mindful support ensures that you’re not just surviving but thriving, amidst and beyond legal challenges.

Personalized Journey of Empowerment:

Personalized Journey of Empowerment: Unlike the one-size-fits-all approach, our mastery lies in crafting personalized pathways that truly resonate with your unique situation and aspirations for the future. Our unwavering focus on open, empathetic communication creates a trusting partnership, 

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 guiding you through intricate decisions and enabling you to emerge empowered. We stand committed to harnessing our complete resources, knowledge, and compassion in support of your journey, ensuring your voice is heard, and your rights and relationships are preserved and strengthened.

Personalized Journey of Empowerment:

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Meet the Team

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Jason Appleyard

​Founder

Jason's wish to create a platform for men was directly influenced by his own experience of a family breakdown.

Jason's wish to create a platform for men was directly influenced by his own experience of a family breakdown.

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Lyla Appleyard

​CEO

Jason pledged, upon relinquishing his residence and all possessions, that he would reconstruct his life and bequeath a legacy to Lyla. This constitutes a portion of that legacy.

Jason pledged, upon relinquishing his residence and all possessions, that he would reconstruct his life and bequeath a legacy to Lyla. This constitutes a portion of that legacy.

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Alison Harding

McKenzie Friend, South England

Alison Harding serves as a McKenzie Friend in the Midlands area, offering invaluable support and guidance to individuals navigating through family court proceedings without legal representation. With a deep understanding of the complexities and challenges faced in court, Alison provides moral support, helps with case paperwork and preparation, and offers advice on court procedures.

Alison Harding serves as a McKenzie Friend in the Midlands area, offering invaluable support and guidance to individuals navigating through family court proceedings without legal representation. With a deep understanding of the complexities and challenges faced in court, Alison provides moral support, helps with case paperwork and preparation, and offers advice on court procedures.

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John Taff

McKenzie Friend, North East

Damian Burrows is a dedicated McKenzie Friend based in the North East of England, providing crucial support and assistance to those embarking on legal proceedings without formal legal representation. Drawing on a wealth of knowledge and experience, Damian offers guidance on a variety of legal matters, specializing in the complexities of family law.

Damian Burrows is a dedicated McKenzie Friend based in the North East of England, providing crucial support and assistance to those embarking on legal proceedings without formal legal representation. Drawing on a wealth of knowledge and experience, Damian offers guidance on a variety of legal matters, specializing in the complexities of family law.

Our Journey Towards Making a Difference

Driven by personal struggle and a heartfelt mission, Jason embarked on a transformative quest nearly a decade ago, not just for his healing but to change the lives of fathers navigating the perplexing maze of the family court system. From years of free service to professional, insightful guidance rooted in extensive knowledge and experience, Jason's journey is a testament to perseverance, empathy, and the relentless pursuit of justice.

Why We Stand Out

Initially facing challenges in court due to widespread misconceptions and a flawed approach, Jason took a radical turn, delving deep into the realms of law and psychology. His unwavering commitment led him to the Open University, dedicating five years to obtaining a BA Hons in Law, augmented by comprehensive studies in A-Level Psychology. This unique blend of legal and psychological insight gave birth to the Family Court Blueprint for Success – a groundbreaking framework designed to empower service users with the necessary strategies, behaviours, and understanding to significantly enhance their chances of favourable outcomes in family court proceedings.

Our ethos is simple: Educate, Empower, Succeed. By focusing on education around the true definitions and parameters of domestic abuse, we’ve turned the tide for over 80% of our service users, achieving outcomes beyond their expectations without the need for traditional legal representation.

From Pro Bono to Professional Brilliance

The transition from offering support during every spare moment to establishing a thriving business came from necessity following a career setback. However, Jason's dedication to offering exceptional value has never waned. Realizing the importance of sustainability without sacrificing the impact, our tailored membership plans were born.

Membership Plans: Bronze, Silver, and Gold Tariffs

Understanding that not one size fits all, we devised three distinct plans – Bronze, Silver, and Gold – each offering varying degrees of support, inclusive of the winning strategies contained within our Blueprint for Success. These tariffs are reflective of our commitment to accessibility, value, and substantive outcomes.

Bronze Plan: Lay the foundation with essential case guidance and document support.

Silver Plan: Elevate with in-depth strategy and expanded coaching sessions.

Gold Plan: Excel with comprehensive, end-to-end case handling and premium-key insights.

Choose What Works for You

Every plan is designed to meet you where you are, providing scalable support that evolves with your case. Whether you opt for a single payment and revel in cost-effective benefits or prefer the flexibility of spreading your investment over 12 months, rest assured that excellence and empowerment are the cornerstones of our service.

Your Journey, Our Mission

At Jason’s Family Court Support Services, we’re not just about navigating legal challenges – we’re about transforming adversity into advocacy, preparing you not just for the courtroom, but for a positive future. With an unparalleled passion for justice and a rigorous, research-backed approach, we give you more than just support; we give you a blueprint for beyond.

Advance with Confidence: Embrace this opportunity to leverage tailor-made guidance that’s realistic, thoughtful, and, above all, academically and practically proven. Choose the plan that best fits your needs and let us chart the course to your family court success together.

Ready to secure a more positive future? Contact us today and discover your path through the family court with Jason's expert guidance by your side.

Our Journey Towards Making a Difference


Driven by personal struggle and a heartfelt mission, Jason embarked on a transformative quest nearly a decade ago, not just for his own healing but to change the lives of fathers navigating the perplexing maze of the family court system. From years of free service to professional, insightful guidance rooted in extensive knowledge and experience, Jason's journey is a testament to perseverance, empathy, and the relentless pursuit of justice.


Why We Stand Out


Initially facing challenges in court due to widespread misconceptions and a flawed approach, Jason took a radical turn, delving deep into the realms of law and psychology. His unwavering commitment led him to the Open University, dedicating five years to obtaining a BA Hons in Law, augmented by comprehensive studies in A-Level Psychology. This unique blend of legal and psychological insight gave birth to the Family Court Blueprint for Success – a groundbreaking framework designed to empower service users with the necessary strategies, behaviors, and understanding to significantly enhance their chances of favorable outcomes in family court proceedings.


Our ethos is simple: Educate, Empower, Succeed. By focusing on education around the true definitions and parameters of domestic abuse, we’ve turned the tide for over 80% of our service users, achieving outcomes beyond their expectations without the need for traditional legal representation.


From Pro Bono to Professional Brilliance


The transition from offering support during every spare moment to establishing a thriving business came from necessity following a career setback. However, Jason's dedication to offering exceptional value has never waned. Realizing the importance of sustainability without sacrificing the impact, our tailored membership plans were born.


Membership Plans: Bronze, Silver, and Gold Tariffs


Understanding that not one size fits all, we devised three distinct plans – Bronze, Silver, and Gold – each offering varying degrees of support, inclusive of the winning strategies contained within our Blueprint for Success. These tariffs are reflective of our commitment to accessibility, value, and substantive outcomes.


Bronze Plan: Lay the foundation with essential case guidance and document support.
Silver Plan: Elevate with in-depth strategy and expanded coaching sessions.
Gold Plan: Excel with comprehensive, end-to-end case handling and premium-key insights.

Choose What Works for You


Every plan is designed to meet you where you are, providing scalable support that evolves with your case. Whether you opt for a single payment and revel in cost-effective benefits or prefer the flexibility of spreading your investment over 12 months, rest assured that excellence and empowerment are the cornerstones of our service.


Your Journey, Our Mission


At Jason’s Family Court Support Services, we’re not just about navigating legal challenges – we’re about transforming adversity into advocacy, preparing you not just for the courtroom, but for a positive future. With an unparalleled passion for justice and a rigorous, research-backed approach, we give you more than just support; we give you a blueprint for beyond.


Advance with Confidence: Embrace this opportunity to leverage tailor-made guidance that’s realistic, thoughtful, and, above all, academically and practically proven. Choose the plan that best fits your needs and let us chart the course to your family court success together.


Ready to secure a more positive future? Contact us today and discover your path through the family court with Jason's expert guidance by your side.

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Annual 12-Month Membership

Opting for our annual plan unfolds an array of unparalleled benefits that set the foundation for truly positive change in your family court journey. When you choose this option, you’re not only investing in a year’s worth of expert, bespoke legal and psychological guidance but also ensuring you do so with incredible cost efficiency. This one-time investment gives you uninterrupted access to our Family Court Blueprint for Success, alongside the most comprehensive advice, preparation, and personal support available. You’ll have the confidence of having Jason’s full arsenal of strategies, resources, and one-on-one coaching at your disposal, ensuring you are strengthened and ready for every step of your legal journey. In a single payment, you secure a service designed to surpass the offerings of any McKenzie Friend or Solicitor, delivering both superior outcomes and remarkable savings. Embrace the peace of mind that comes from knowing your case is consistently prioritized, helping you to navigate the complexities of family court with clarity and confidence all year long.

Opting for our annual plan unfolds an array of unparalleled benefits that set the foundation for true positive change in your family court journey. When you choose this option, you’re not only investing in a year’s worth of expert, bespoke legal and psychological guidance but also ensuring you do so with incredible cost efficiency. This one-time investment gives you uninterrupted access to our Family Court Blueprint for Success, alongside the most comprehensive advice, preparation, and personal support available. You’ll have the confidence of having Jason’s full arsenal of strategies, resources, and one-on-one coaching at your disposal, ensuring you are strengthened and ready for every step of your legal journey. In a single payment, you secure a service designed to surpass the offerings of any McKenzie Friend or Solicitor, delivering both superior outcomes and remarkable savings. Embrace the peace of mind that comes from knowing your case is consistently prioritized, helping you to navigate the complexities of family court with clarity and confidence all year long.

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Fixed 12-Month Subscription Membership

Our 12-month subscription model is tailored for those seeking flexibility without sacrificing the depth and quality of the support on offer. By spreading the cost over a year, this plan alleviates the immediate financial pressure, making professional family law guidance more accessible without compromising on the calibre of service rendered. This approach allows you to benefit from the same tailored, strategist-supported framework that’s found in our annual plan, including personalized coaching and access to our transformative Family Court Blueprint for Success. It’s an investment strategy to extend support to service users by deferring costs, ensuring that everyone has access to expert guidance, regardless of their financial situation at the outset. Choose this plan to navigate your family court experiences with ongoing, robust support while managing your finances in a way that suits you best. This flexible payment option still represents outstanding value for your pound, offering a practical path to the same high-quality outcomes promised by our annual plan, ensuring excellence in service is never out of reach.

Our 12-month subscription model is tailored for those seeking flexibility without sacrificing the depth and quality of the support on offer. By spreading the cost over a year, this plan alleviates the immediate financial pressure, making professional family law guidance more accessible without compromising on the caliber of service rendered. This approach allows you to benefit from the same tailored, strategist-supported framework that’s found in our annual plan, including personalized coaching and access to our transformative Family Court Blueprint for Success. It’s an investment strategies to extend support to service users by deferring costs, ensuring that everyone has access to expert guidance, regardless of their financial situation at the outset. Choose this plan to navigate your family court experiences with ongoing, robust support while managing your finances in a way that suits you best. This flexible payment option still represents outstanding value for your pound, offering a practical path to the same high-quality outcomes promised by our annual plan, ensuring excellence in service is never out of reach.

​User Feedback

​We asked for some feedback from our service users who have used these plans with successful outcomes. Here is what they had to say!

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David T.
Falsely Accused Father

"The comprehensive assistance from the Gold Plan was a game-changer for me. The team's dedication helped me navigate my case with confidence I never knew I had."

"The comprehensive assistance from the Gold Plan was a game-changer for me. The team's dedication helped me navigate my case with confidence I never knew I had." - David T.

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Emily R. 
Alienated Mother 

"Opting for the Silver Plan literally shifted my perspective. It wasn't just about getting through. The support I received made me feel empowered through one of the toughest times."

"Opting for the Silver Plan literally shifted my perspective. It wasn't just about getting through. The support I received made me feel empowered through one of the toughest times." - Emily R.

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Lucas B. 
Father of two Boys.

"I wasn't sure where to start, but the Bronze Plan helped me get everything in order at an unbeatable value. The support was incredible."

"I wasn't sure where to start, but the Bronze Plan helped me get everything in order at an unbeatable value. The support was incredible." - Lucas B.

Make the Decision Today That Will Change Your Tomorrow

Choose the plan that best suits your needs and take a significant step toward navigating through your family law challenges with confidence and expert support.

Remember, every journey through the courts or paperwork maze can be smoother with the right ally by your side. Let's embark on this journey together, ensuring your peace of mind.

Invest in your future, regain control of your situation, and allow us to guide you toward a resolution with clarity and dignity.

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Pricing Plans

Bronze Membership

​Annual

£1749 / Year

Designed for empowering you through paperwork and providing essential legal argument coaching. Apart from 120 hours of personalized coaching over the year, you’ll receive templates and step-by-step guides for document preparation. DOES NOT INCLUDE IN COURT SUPPORT.

In the Bronze Plan with Modern Family Law Help4U Group, a McKenzie Friend would primarily focus on equipping service users with the knowledge, strategies, and documentation necessary for navigating their family law matters more efficiently and effectively. Here is a specific breakdown of activities and tasks a McKenzie Friend might undertake on a Bronze Plan:

1. **Document Preparation Assistance** Guiding the service user through the process of preparing necessary legal documents. This might include helping to draft letters, fill out court forms, and compile the required paperwork in a structured way that meets legal standards.

2. **Case Strategy Coaching** Offering insight and advice on how to approach the case, including discussing potential outcomes and strategies for achieving desired goals within the framework of family law.

3. **Reviewing and Organizing Evidence** Helping the service user understand what evidence is relevant and how to organize it effectively for their case. This could involve sifting through correspondences, financial documents, or other pertinent records, and advising on how best to present them to support the case.

4. **Legal Argument Preparation** Assisting in crafting coherent and persuasive legal arguments for written submissions or potential verbal presentations in court. This includes advising on the key points to highlight, legal precedents to reference, and how to structure arguments for maximum impact.

5. **Procedural Guidance** Explaining various legal processes and what to expect at each stage of the family law proceedings. This encompasses guidance on timelines, judicial protocols, and the logistics of attending court.

6. **Emotional and Moral Support** Offering a listening ear and providing emotional support throughout what can be a taxing and stressful experience. While not a counsellor, a McKenzie Friend in this capacity can be a steady presence and encourage the service user to maintain focus and perspective.

7. **Preparation for Court Appearances** (except in-court advocacy): Although the Bronze Plan does not include in-court support, we ensure that you are fully equipped for what to expect in your court hearing.  Your McKenzie Friend can help prepare them for what to expect, advise on court etiquette, and potentially run through mock hearings or questions they might face.

8. **Legal Education** Empowering the service user by increasing their understanding of pertinent laws, their rights, and how the legal system operates within the context of their case. This could involve suggesting resources, giving mini-lectures, or discussing legal principles and their practical applications.

9. **Guidance on Communication** Advising on how best to communicate with the other party, their legal team, or the court, emphasizing professionalism, clarity, and objectivity.

The core objective of activities under the Bronze Plan is to equip the service user with the tools, confidence, and knowledge required to navigate their family law issue with greater independence, backed by professional guidance and support.

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In the Bronze Plan with Modern Family Law Help4U Group, a McKenzie Friend would primarily focus on equipping service users with the knowledge, strategies, and documentation necessary for navigating their family law matter more efficiently and effectively. Here is a specific breakdown of activities and tasks a McKenzie Friend might undertake on a Bronze Plan:

1. **Document Preparation Assistance**: Guiding the service user through the process of preparing necessary legal documents. This might include helping to draft letters, fill out court forms, and compile the required paperwork in a structured way that meets legal standards.

2. **Case Strategy Coaching**: Offering insight and advice on how to approach the case, including discussing potential outcomes and strategies for achieving desired goals within the framework of family law.

3. **Reviewing and Organizing Evidence**: Helping the service user understand what evidence is relevant and how to organize it effectively for their case. This could involve sifting through correspondences, financial documents, or other pertinent records, and advising on how best to present them to support the case.

4. **Legal Argument Preparation**: Assisting in crafting coherent and persuasive legal arguments for written submissions or potential verbal presentations in court. This includes advising on the key points to highlight, legal precedents to reference, and how to structure arguments for maximum impact.

5. **Procedural Guidance**: Explaining various legal processes and what to expect at each stage of the family law proceedings. This encompasses guidance on timelines, judicial protocols, and the logistics of attending court.

6. **Emotional and Moral Support**: Offering a listening ear and providing emotional support throughout what can be a taxing and stressful experience. While not a counselor, a McKenzie Friend in this capacity can be a steady presence and encourage the service user to maintain focus and perspective.

7. **Preparation for Court Appearances** (except in-court advocacy): Although the Bronze Plan does not include representing or speaking on behalf of the service user in court, a McKenzie Friend can help prepare them for what to expect, advise on court etiquette, and potentially run through mock hearings or questions they might face.

8. **Legal Education**: Empowering the service user by increasing their understanding of pertinent laws, their rights, and how the legal system operates within the context of their case. This could involve suggesting resources, giving mini-lectures, or discussing legal principles and their practical applications.

9. **Guidance on Communication**: Advising on how best to communicate with the other party, their legal team, or the court, emphasizing professionalism, clarity, and objectivity.

The core objective of activities under the Bronze Plan is to equip the service user with the tools, confidence, and knowledge required to navigate their family law issue with greater independence, backed by professional guidance and support.

Silver Membership

​Annual

£3497 / Year

For when you require more in-depth support, this plan includes all of the Bronze offerings plus additional strategies and preparation help for your case. The Silver Plan comes with additional commitment from us to you. Committing a Minimum of 240 hours over the course of the Year! That's 5 hours a week of either 121 coaching and support when needed or commitment of time spent working on your case. This plan DOES include in-court support

Comprehensive Document Preparation: Taking a more hands-on approach to preparing all required legal documents. This includes in-depth work on drafting, reviewing, and finalising submissions, petitions, and responses, ensuring they align with legal standards and strongly support the user's goals.

Enhanced Case Strategy and Planning: Providing more elaborate strategy sessions to discuss and navigate the complexities of the user’s case. This involves devising detailed action plans, identifying alternative dispute resolution options, and planning various scenarios to ensure the user is well-prepared for multiple outcomes.

Expanded Review and Organization of Evidence: Offering substantial support in gathering, organising, and assessing evidence. This might include a more intricate analysis of financial records, communications, and any other elements critical to the case, ensuring the presentation of evidence is robust and compelling.

In-Depth Legal Argument Development: Assisting the service user in refining their legal arguments, emphasizing persuasive legal writing and speaking techniques. This could involve detailed feedback on drafts, suggesting influential legal precedents, and providing templates or examples for inspiration.

Guidance Through Complex Procedural Matters: Offering extensive guidance on navigating the family law court’s procedural maze, including a deeper understanding of specific court documentation, legal filings, and adherence to deadlines, helping to demystify more complex legal procedures.

Preparation and Practice for Court Presentations: Increased support in preparing for court appearances, including more rigorous mock sessions, practice Q&A, and feedback on demeanour and presentation. The aim is to build confidence and ensure the service user is as prepared as possible for the reality of court proceedings.

Higher-Level Legal Education and Empowerment: Providing a more structured learning framework on relevant legal concepts, self-advocacy techniques, and updates in family law that may impact the case. This could include workshops or curated reading lists for deeper legal understanding.

Direction on Effective Communication and Negotiation: Advising and coaching on the nuances of negotiation, communication with opposing parties, and liaising with court personnel. Emphasis on strategic communication to foster better outcomes in negotiations or mediations.

Emotional Support and Encouragement: A more profound layer of emotional and moral support, recognising the heightened stress that can come with complex family matters. The McKenzie Friend might identify resources for additional support, help maintain a positive outlook, and provide regular check-ins.

The Silver Plan significantly broadens the scope of support, particularly advantageous for those navigating more complex legal issues or who anticipate a more contentious process. This plan not only provides a deeper level of preparatory and strategic assistance but also offers richer, more comprehensive support in navigating the emotional and procedural complexities of family law.

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The Silver Plan significantly broadens the scope of support, particularly advantageous for those navigating more complex legal issues or who anticipate a more contentious process. This plan not only provides a deeper level of preparatory and strategic assistance but also offers richer, more comprehensive support in navigating the emotional and procedural complexities of family law.

Gold Membership

​Annual

£5497 / Year

The Gold Plan represents the pinnacle of support offered by Modern Family Law Help4U Group, delivering an all-encompassing, premium service where a McKenzie Friend is involved extensively in the preparation, strategy, and execution of a family law case. Building upon the foundation laid by the Bronze and Silver Plans, the Gold Plan introduces a full suite of personalized, hands-on assistance tailored to the most complex and demanding legal situations. Here’s what a McKenzie Friend would provide under the Gold Plan: 

Full Case Management: Taking charge of the overall management of the service user’s case, ensuring that every aspect from documentation to court appearances is meticulously planned and executed. This entails a comprehensive overview and involvement in all facets of the case.

End-to-End Document Handling: Involves complete responsibility for drafting, reviewing, editing, and finalizing all court documents, submissions, applications, and responses, employing advanced legal drafting techniques that leverage in-depth knowledge of family law.

Advanced Case Strategy Formulation: Crafting sophisticated legal strategies tailored to the unique nuances of the case, incorporating deep legal analysis, precedent research, and scenario planning. Strategy sessions in this plan are highly detailed, focusing on maximising the odds of a favourable outcome.

Comprehensive Evidence Compilation and Analysis: Engaging in an exhaustive collection, organization, and assessment of evidence, with a focus on building the most compelling case possible. This may involve coordinating with external experts for evaluations or reports to strengthen the case further.

Extensive Pre-Trial and Court Procedure Coaching: Offering intensive preparation for court, which includes procedural advice, detailed moot court sessions, and fine-tuning of presentation skills. The expectation is to ensure the service user is exceptionally well-prepared, conversant with potential courtroom dynamics, and capable of managing stress during hearings.

In-Depth Legal Research and Education: Providing an advanced curriculum of legal education, incorporating the latest developments in family law, persuasive legal argumentation, and self-representation techniques. The goal is to empower the service user with professional-grade legal knowledge and confidence.

Expert Negotiation and Communication Strategy: Nuanced training and strategy formulation for negotiations, mediation, or communication with opposing parties. This involves not just guidance, but active role-playing and strategy adjustment based on simulated responses.

Direct In-Court Support: Although McKenzie Friends traditionally do not represent clients, in the context of the Gold Plan, the extent of support reaches its zenith, including sitting beside the service user in court, and providing real-time advice, notes, and moral support throughout hearings.

Robust Emotional and Stress Management Support: Recognizing the heightened emotional toll complex cases can carry, the Gold Plan ensures a more robust framework for emotional support, including strategies for handling stress, maintaining mental health, and focusing on well-being.

Spearheading Interactions with Other Professionals: Active coordination and advocacy on the service user's behalf when dealing with legal professionals, counsellors, and any other stakeholders involved in the case. The McKenzie Friend serves as a primary point of contact, ensuring all actions are aligned with the case strategy.

Post-Hearing Evaluation and Next Steps Planning: After court hearings or significant milestones, conducting thorough debriefs, evaluating outcomes, and immediately planning next steps to maintain momentum and adapt strategies as necessary.

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Full Case Management: Taking charge of the overall management of the service user’s case, ensuring that every aspect from documentation to court appearances is meticulously planned and executed. This entails a comprehensive overview and involvement in all facets of the case.

End-to-End Document Handling: Involves complete responsibility for drafting, reviewing, editing, and finalizing all court documents, submissions, applications, and responses, employing advanced legal drafting techniques that leverage in-depth knowledge of family law.

Advanced Case Strategy Formulation: Crafting sophisticated legal strategies tailored to the unique nuances of the case, incorporating deep legal analysis, precedent research, and scenario planning. Strategy sessions in this plan are highly detailed, focusing on maximising the odds of a favorable outcome.

Comprehensive Evidence Compilation and Analysis: Engaging in an exhaustive collection, organization, and assessment of evidence, with a focus on building the most compelling case possible. This may involve coordinating with external experts for evaluations or reports to strengthen the case further.

Extensive Pre-Trial and Court Procedure Coaching: Offering intensive preparation for court, which includes procedural advice, detailed moot court sessions, and fine-tuning of presentation skills. The expectation is to ensure the service user is exceptionally well-prepared, conversant with potential courtroom dynamics, and capable of managing stress during hearings.

In-Depth Legal Research and Education: Providing an advanced curriculum of legal education, incorporating the latest developments in family law, persuasive legal argumentation, and self-representation techniques. The goal is to empower the service user with professional-grade legal knowledge and confidence.

Expert Negotiation and Communication Strategy: Nuanced training and strategy formulation for negotiations, mediation, or communication with opposing parties. This involves not just guidance, but active role-playing and strategy adjustment based on simulated responses.

Direct In-Court Support: Although McKenzie Friends traditionally do not represent clients, in the context of the Gold Plan, the extent of support reaches its zenith, including sitting beside the service user in court, providing real-time advice, notes, and moral support throughout hearings.

Robust Emotional and Stress Management Support: Recognizing the heightened emotional toll complex cases can carry, the Gold Plan ensures a more robust framework for emotional support, including strategies for handling stress, maintaining mental health, and focusing on well-being.

Spearheading Interactions with Other Professionals: Active coordination and advocacy on the service user's behalf when dealing with legal professionals, counsellors, and any other stakeholders involved in the case. The McKenzie Friend serves as a primary point of contact, ensuring all actions are aligned with the case strategy.

Post-Hearing Evaluation and Next Steps Planning: After court hearings or significant milestones, conducting thorough debriefs, evaluating outcomes, and immediately planning next steps to maintain momentum and adapt strategies as necessary.

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Hours Provided: 10 hours per month (120 hours per year).

Hourly Breakdown: With £50 per hour, you’re getting £6,000 worth of services.

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Hours Provided: 10 hours per month (120 hours per year).
Hourly Breakdown: With £50 per hour, you’re getting £6,000 worth of services.
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Hours Provided: 20 hours per month (240 hours per year).

Hourly Breakdown: Valued at £12,000 when billed hourly.

Annual One-Off Payment: £3,497 (Save a phenomenal £8,503! on the hourly value​)

Monthly Payment Option: £399 (£4,788 annually, saving you £7,212 of the hourly Value!)

In-court support is INCLUDED on this plan!

Hours Provided: 20 hours per month (240 hours per year).
Hourly Breakdown: Valued at £12,000 when billed hourly.
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Hours Provided: 40 hours per month (480 hours per year).

Hourly Breakdown: Equivalent to £24,000 at our hourly rate.

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Monthly Payment Option: £599 (£7,188 annually, saving you £16,812!)

Hours Provided: 40 hours per month (480 hours per year).
Hourly Breakdown: Equivalent to £24,000 at our hourly rate.
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Hours Provided: 5 Precourt and 3 Post-Court 

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The Steps and Process in England & Wales

As of my last update in 2023, the duration of family court cases in England and Wales can vary significantly based on several factors including the complexity of the case, whether it's contested, the specific issues at hand (such as child custody, divorce settlements, etc.), and the court's workload.

However, on average, uncontested cases, where both parties agree on the major issues, can be relatively swift, possibly completed within 4 to 6 months. For contested cases, where the parties cannot agree, the process is usually longer—ranging from about 12 months to, in some complex situations, over 18 months or even more.

In family court proceedings in England and Wales, parties can expect to go through several key stages if their case involves hearings. The specific nature of these hearings can vary, depending on whether the case is related to divorce, child arrangements, financial orders, or other family law matters. Below is an outline of the common steps in terms of hearings that the parties might go through with cases that are not complex.

1. First Directions Appointment (FDA)

This is often the first hearing in financial remedy proceedings, designed to identify the main issues, ensure compliance with pre-hearing directions, and decide what further information is needed.

The focus is on case management, determining the timetable for the next steps, and attempting to narrow down the issues between the parties to avoid a final hearing if possible.

2. Dispute Resolution Appointment (DRA)

If the case cannot be resolved at the FDA or is not fully prepared for a final hearing, the next step might be a DRA.

This hearing focuses on encouraging the parties to settle their disputes through negotiations, with the judge playing a more interventionist role to facilitate a resolution.

It serves as an opportunity to settle the case without proceeding to a full trial.

3. Final Hearing

If parties are unable to reach an agreement, the case will proceed to a Final Hearing.

During this hearing, both parties present their evidence, including documents and witness testimonies.

The judge will make binding decisions on the disputed issues, culminating in a court order.


Special Hearings for Child Arrangement Cases

For cases specifically concerning child arrangements, other types of hearings may be involved:

First Hearing Dispute Resolution Appointment (FHDRA): This early hearing aims to help parties reach an agreement regarding child arrangements. The court considers the welfare of the child and may issue directions for gathering evidence, such as reports from Children and Family Court Advisory and Support Service (Cafcass). If a resolution is not found, the court will set a timetable for the next steps.

Further Case Management Hearings: If the case is complex, additional hearings may be scheduled to ensure that both parties comply with court orders and to prepare for the final hearing properly.

Final Hearing for Child Arrangements: Similar to other final hearings, evidence is presented, and the judge makes a decision based on the best interests of the child(ren).

Other Potential Hearings

Interim Hearings: Occasionally, there may be additional hearings for urgent or interim matters, requiring temporary decisions on certain issues until the Final Hearing takes place.

It's important to recognize that the names and processes of these hearings can change, and not every case will follow the same path. The complexity of the case, the court's schedule, and the willingness of parties to negotiate and resolve matters amicably play significant roles in determining the exact route through the court system.

In the context of family law in England and Wales, Occupational Orders and Non-Molestation Orders are legal measures designed to protect individuals from harm and address urgent housing and safety concerns arising from familial disputes. Their interaction with Child Arrangements Orders, which deal with where a child lives and when they spend time with each parent, is significant, potentially affecting the logistics and dynamics of child access and custody.


In the context of family law in England and Wales, Occupational Orders and Non-Molestation Orders are legal measures designed to protect individuals from harm and address urgent housing and safety concerns arising from familial disputes. Their interaction with Child Arrangements Orders, which deal with where a child lives and when they spend time with each parent, is significant, potentially affecting the logistics and dynamics of child access and custody.


Occupational Orders

An Occupation Order regulates who can live in the family home or enter its surrounding area. It’s crucial in situations of separation or divorce, especially when there’s domestic violence or the threat thereof.


Impact on Child Arrangements: An Occupation Order can directly affect where the child(ren) reside, especially if one parent is excluded from the family home. It might necessitate adjustments to previously agreed or court-ordered child arrangements, emphasizing the child's need for a stable, safe living environment free of conflict or harm.

Non-Molestation Orders

A Non-Molestation Order aims to protect individuals from harassment and violence, prohibiting a named person from behaving in ways that pertain to molestation, which could encompass violence, threats of violence, or any form of intimidation or pestering.


Impact on Child Arrangements: This order can indirectly affect child arrangements by restricting or delineating the defendant's (i.e., the person whom the order is made against) interaction or communication with the child's other parent. It might lead to specified, supervised visitations or indirect contact with the child, particularly if there is a concern for the child’s safety as a result of direct contact.

How These Orders Interact and Impact Child Arrangements

Safety and Welfare: The uppermost concern in any child arrangement matter is the safety and welfare of the child. Thus, any occurrence or risk of harm that leads to the granting of a Non-Molestation or Occupation Order will similarly influence the court’s decisions on child arrangements to prioritize protective mechanisms for the child.

Adjustment of Existing Child Arrangements: If any of these Orders are put in place after child arrangements have been made, it might necessitate revisiting and modifying the arrangements to ensure they align with the new circumstances and continue to serve the child’s best interests.

Supervised or Indirect Contact: Especially with a Non-Molestation Order, the court may decide that any contact between the child and the parent against whom the order is made should be supervised or facilitated through indirect means (such as letters or video calls), at least temporarily.

Court’s Holistic View: When deciding on or adjusting Child Arrangements Orders in light of new protection orders, the court takes a holistic view of the family’s circumstances. It will consider a variety of factors, including the specific reasons behind the issuance of the Non-Molestation or Occupation Order and the physical and emotional health and well-being of the child.


In conclusion, the issuing of Occupational Orders or Non-Molestation Orders not only reflects serious underlying issues within family dynamics but also has substantive implications for how child arrangements are structured and implemented. Given the relational intricacies these orders involve, legal guidance is strongly advised to navigate the implications and ensure that the solutions are in the best interests of the children involved.

​Non-Molestation Orders & Occupational Orders

Occupational Orders and Non-Molestation Orders are legal measures designed to protect individuals from harm and address urgent housing and safety concerns arising from familial disputes. Their interaction with Child Arrangements Orders, which deal with where a child lives and when they spend time with each parent, is significant, potentially affecting the logistics and dynamics of child access and custody. It is not uncommon for these applications to be manipulated. It is very common for a party to use the Non-Mol and Occupational Order to alienate and manipulate the true intention of the Non-Molestation Order.

Occupational Orders

An Occupation Order regulates who can live in the family home or enter its surrounding area. It’s crucial in situations of separation or divorce, especially when there’s domestic violence or the threat thereof.

Impact on Child Arrangements: An Occupation Order can directly affect where the child(ren) resides, especially if one parent is excluded from the family home. It might necessitate adjustments to previously agreed or court-ordered child arrangements, emphasizing the child's need for a stable, safe living environment free of conflict or harm.

Non-Molestation Orders

A Non-Molestation Order aims to protect individuals from harassment and violence, prohibiting a named person from behaving in ways that pertain to molestation, which could encompass violence, threats of violence, or any form of intimidation or pestering.

Impact on Child Arrangements: This order can indirectly affect child arrangements by restricting or delineating the defendant's (i.e., the person whom the order is made against) interaction or communication with the child's other parent. It might lead to specified, supervised visitations or indirect contact with the child, particularly if there is a concern for the child’s safety as a result of direct contact.

How These Orders Interact and Impact Child Arrangements

Safety and Welfare: The uppermost concern in any child arrangement matter is the safety and welfare of the child. Thus, any occurrence or risk of harm that leads to the granting of a Non-Molestation or Occupation Order will similarly influence the court’s decisions on child arrangements to prioritize protective mechanisms for the child.

Adjustment of Existing Child Arrangements: If any of these Orders are put in place after child arrangements have been made, it might necessitate revisiting and modifying the arrangements to ensure they align with the new circumstances and continue to serve the child’s best interests.

Supervised or Indirect Contact: Especially with a Non-Molestation Order, the court may decide that any contact between the child and the parent against whom the order is made should be supervised or facilitated through indirect means (such as letters or video calls), at least temporarily.

Court’s Holistic View: When deciding on or adjusting Child Arrangements Orders in light of new protection orders, the court takes a holistic view of the family’s circumstances. It will consider a variety of factors, including the specific reasons behind the issuance of the Non-Molestation or Occupation Order and the physical and emotional health and well-being of the child.

In conclusion, the issuing of Occupational Orders or Non-Molestation Orders not only reflects serious underlying issues within family dynamics but also has substantive implications for how child arrangements are structured and implemented. Given the relational intricacies these orders involve, legal guidance is strongly advised to navigate the implications and ensure that the solutions are in the best interests of the children involved.

Occupational Orders and Non-Molestation Orders are legal measures designed to protect individuals from harm and address urgent housing and safety concerns arising from familial disputes. Their interaction with Child Arrangements Orders, which deal with where a child lives and when they spend time with each parent, is significant, potentially affecting the logistics and dynamics of child access and custody.

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Divorce Application and Paperwork Assistance

Guide clients through the divorce process, offering comprehensive support in completing and filing the necessary documents.

Guide clients through the divorce process, offering comprehensive support in completing and filing the necessary documents.

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Statement Support - Basic (Proofreading and Basic Review)

STARTS AT £69 up to £199 Offer a preliminary review of client statements, ensuring clarity and correct information.

STARTS AT £69 Offer a preliminary review of client statements, ensuring clarity and correct information.

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Court Application Filing

FREE for NEW CUSTOMERS ONLY Provide first-time clients with complimentary support in filing initial court applications.

FREE for NEW CUSTOMERS ONLY Provide first-time clients with complimentary support in filing initial court applications.

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Consent Order Drafting

Assist with the drafting and filing of Consent Orders to make financial arrangements legally binding post-divorce or separation.

Assist with the drafting and filing of Consent Orders to make financial arrangements legally binding post-divorce or separation.

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Get assistance in court, have notes from the hearing and support for the hearing.

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Deep Dive Case Consultation

The "Deep Dive Case Consultation" is an advanced service offering from Modern Family Law Help4u Group, designed to provide clients with an extensive and detailed evaluation of their family law case.

The "Deep Dive Case Consultation" is an advanced service offering from Modern Family Law Help4u Group, designed to provide clients with an extensive and detailed evaluation of their family law case.

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Cafcass Coaching

Cafcass Coaching is a targeted service offered by entities like Modern Family Law Help4u Group, designed to prepare parents for interactions with Cafcass officers and court proceedings involving child custody and welfare decisions.

Cafcass Coaching is a targeted service offered by entities like Modern Family Law Help4u Group, designed to prepare parents for interactions with Cafcass officers and court proceedings involving child custody and welfare decisions.

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In-Court Support

This support involves having a professional—often, but not limited to, a McKenzie Friend or a legal advisor—who can accompany clients to court proceedings, providing moral support, guidance on court etiquette, and clarity on legal jargon and procedures.

This support involves having a professional—often, but not limited to, a McKenzie Friend or a legal advisor—who can accompany clients to court proceedings, providing moral support, guidance on court etiquette, and clarity on legal jargon and procedures.

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Statement Support Pro.

comprehensive service devised to meet the crucial needs of individuals preparing written statements for family court cases. Offered by agencies such as Modern Family Law Help4u Group, this service is tailor-made for those who require an in-depth, professional touch in articulating their narrative concisely, accurately, and persuasively.

comprehensive service devised to meet the crucial needs of individuals preparing written statements for family court cases. Offered by agencies such as Modern Family Law Help4u Group, this service is tailor-made for those who require an in-depth, professional touch in articulating their narrative concisely, accurately, and persuasively.

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Post Hearing Prediction

This service aims to provide clients with a forward-looking analysis following a critical court hearing, offering insights into potential outcomes, subsequent steps, and strategic advice on navigating the future of their case.

This service aims to provide clients with a forward-looking analysis following a critical court hearing, offering insights into potential outcomes, subsequent steps, and strategic advice on navigating the future of their case.
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At Modern Family Law Help4u Group, we believe in the power of collaboration and support to overcome challenges, especially those faced in the complex landscape of family court. Our mission extends beyond providing services—we aim to build a community where individuals feel understood, supported, and empowered.

For Businesses: If you represent a business looking to make a real difference through collaboration, we are eager to hear from you. Join us in our mission to provide much-needed support and resources. Whether through service partnerships, awareness campaigns, or other joint efforts, your expertise can contribute to meaningful change. Let's explore how we can work together and amplify our impact.

For Fathers: Navigating the family court can be a daunting journey, and it’s a path no one should walk alone. If you are a father who has gone through the family court system and did not achieve the outcome you hoped for, we want to hear your story. Our goal is to provide support, guidance, and access to resources that can assist in navigating these challenges. Whether you seek legal advice, emotional support, or simply a community that understands, we are here for you.

Let’s start a conversation. Please reach out to us using the contact details below, or fill out our [contact form/link to contact form] with your inquiry. Your journey, insights, and opportunities for collaboration are important to us, and together, we can work towards a future where every voice is heard and supported.

At [Your Organization's Name], we believe in the power of collaboration and support to overcome challenges, especially those faced in the complex landscape of family court. Our mission extends beyond providing services—we aim to build a community where individuals feel understood, supported, and empowered.


For Businesses:


If you represent a business looking to make a real difference through collaboration, we are eager to hear from you. Join us in our mission to provide much-needed support and resources. Whether through service partnerships, awareness campaigns, or other joint efforts, your expertise can contribute to meaningful change. Let's explore how we can work together and amplify our impact.


For Fathers:


Navigating the family court can be a daunting journey, and it’s a path no one should walk alone. If you are a father who has gone through the family court system and did not achieve the outcome you hoped for, we want to hear your story. Our goal is to provide support, guidance, and access to resources that can assist in navigating these challenges. Whether you seek legal advice, emotional support, or simply a community that understands, we are here for you.


Let’s start a conversation. Please reach out to us using the contact details below, or fill out our [contact form/link to contact form] with your inquiry. Your journey, insights, and opportunities for collaboration are important to us, and together, we can work towards a future where every voice is heard and supported.
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